我找到我继续写我的部落格的动力了。。。
至于是什么，
才不告诉你呢。。。
我只想把它当成我个人的小小秘密。。。
^^
抱歉啦。。。
我觉得我很废。。。
只会做些无聊的事。。。
会吗？
你给我答案啦。。。。
2010年1月27日星期三
最熟悉的陌生人
最近的生活闷闷的，也不知道为什么？
又在再见到你，在狭窄的走廊上。。。
你不屑的眼神，我逃避的目光，
已经是你我最熟悉打招呼的方式。。。
你，是我心中的秘密，也是我心中的痛。。。
你，让我明白我在我们友谊的道路上是多么失败。。。
不过，一切都过去了。。。
我们是彼此最熟悉的陌生人。。。
你曾经住在我的心里，
曾经让我快乐，让我悲伤。。。
不过一切都结束了，在我转身时。。。
我们是最熟悉的陌生人不是吗？
在我失落时，
你曾偷偷给与我激励，
却以为我不知道。。。
你曾经问我，
“你会恨我吗？”
我不语。。。
你是我生命中最重要的过客。。。
你的后悔，
是的，我看见了。。。
可是，我没有勇气去原谅你。。。
谢谢你的原谅。。。
原谅我们的友谊，
然而，你却不知道这篇文章的对象是谁。。。
又在再见到你，在狭窄的走廊上。。。
你不屑的眼神，我逃避的目光，
已经是你我最熟悉打招呼的方式。。。
你，是我心中的秘密，也是我心中的痛。。。
你，让我明白我在我们友谊的道路上是多么失败。。。
不过，一切都过去了。。。
我们是彼此最熟悉的陌生人。。。
你曾经住在我的心里，
曾经让我快乐，让我悲伤。。。
不过一切都结束了，在我转身时。。。
我们是最熟悉的陌生人不是吗？
在我失落时，
你曾偷偷给与我激励，
却以为我不知道。。。
你曾经问我，
“你会恨我吗？”
我不语。。。
你是我生命中最重要的过客。。。
你的后悔，
是的，我看见了。。。
可是，我没有勇气去原谅你。。。
谢谢你的原谅。。。
原谅我们的友谊，
然而，你却不知道这篇文章的对象是谁。。。
2010年1月24日星期日
How to Have a Happy Life
How to Have a Happy Life
We always wish to have a happy life, but what do we really mean when we say "happy"? And will all the good intentions we have bring us happiness? Let us contemplate the wisdom of an enlightend master, Sadhguru Jaggi Vasudev, to help us focus on what we really mean and how to achieve it. This is what he says: Happiness does not only come from achievement. When you were a child you were simply happy. So that is your nature. And every moment, with every single action, we are all seeking to be happy because it is the original nature. You were taught about philosophies, gods, heaven and hell, but nobody taught you to be happy. If you go against your own nature to be happy, you will never get anywhere. And to be happy is not the ultimate aspect of life. To be happy is the fundamental aspect of life. If you are not happy, what else can you do with your life? Only if you are happy, can other great possibilities arise in your life.
The first and most fundamental responsibility for a human being is to become joyous being himself or herself. It doesn't matter what you are pursuing in your life, whether it is business, money, power, education, service or something else, you are doing so because somewhere deep inside you is a feeling that this will bring you happiness.
Every single action that we perform on this planet springs from an aspiration to be happy. Today we are seeking happiness so vigorously that the very life of the planet is being threatened.
When you are fundamentally joyous, when you don't have to do anything to be happy, then every dimension of your life--the way you perceive and express yourself and the world--will change. You will have no more vested interests because whether you do something or you don't do something, whether you get something or don't get something, whether something happens or doesn't happen, you will be joyous by your nature, and your actions will rise to a completely different level.
So it is definitely time we look inward and see how to create personal well-being. From your own experience of life you can clearly see that true well-being will come to you only if your interiority changes. At present, the quality of your life is not determined by the clothes that you wear, the educational qualifications that you carry, the family background that you come from or the bank balances that you hold. Rather, the quality of your life depends upon how peaceful and joyous you are within yourself.
Unless something of true value happens within you, you can't do anything of tremendous value to the world. Whatever you do, it is only your inner quality that you are going to spread. Whether you like it or not, that is the reality. If you are concerned about the world, the first thing you must do is transform yourself into a joyous being.
To be peaceful and happy is a universal wish, but the question is How to attain it? Suppose something has happened to upset your sense of peace. First you might quarrel with your spouse, then with other people, and then maybe you'll yell at your boss. By that time people are suggesting you need to go to a doctor. If you go to a doctor he'll probably give you a pill to calm you down. With just a little bit of chemical, your system becomes peaceful. It may be just for a short while, but your system does become peaceful.
So what you call peace is just a certain kind of chemistry. Similarly, every emotion you experience--your joy, your anger, your ecstasy, your turmoil, your fear, your stress--each has a chemical basis. Now, there is a technology, an inner science that can enable you to create a chemistry so that you can be peaceful, happy and joyous by your own nature, not subject to what is happening around you. This is the science of yoga. It will change the whole perspective of your life.
We always wish to have a happy life, but what do we really mean when we say "happy"? And will all the good intentions we have bring us happiness? Let us contemplate the wisdom of an enlightend master, Sadhguru Jaggi Vasudev, to help us focus on what we really mean and how to achieve it. This is what he says: Happiness does not only come from achievement. When you were a child you were simply happy. So that is your nature. And every moment, with every single action, we are all seeking to be happy because it is the original nature. You were taught about philosophies, gods, heaven and hell, but nobody taught you to be happy. If you go against your own nature to be happy, you will never get anywhere. And to be happy is not the ultimate aspect of life. To be happy is the fundamental aspect of life. If you are not happy, what else can you do with your life? Only if you are happy, can other great possibilities arise in your life.
The first and most fundamental responsibility for a human being is to become joyous being himself or herself. It doesn't matter what you are pursuing in your life, whether it is business, money, power, education, service or something else, you are doing so because somewhere deep inside you is a feeling that this will bring you happiness.
Every single action that we perform on this planet springs from an aspiration to be happy. Today we are seeking happiness so vigorously that the very life of the planet is being threatened.
When you are fundamentally joyous, when you don't have to do anything to be happy, then every dimension of your life--the way you perceive and express yourself and the world--will change. You will have no more vested interests because whether you do something or you don't do something, whether you get something or don't get something, whether something happens or doesn't happen, you will be joyous by your nature, and your actions will rise to a completely different level.
So it is definitely time we look inward and see how to create personal well-being. From your own experience of life you can clearly see that true well-being will come to you only if your interiority changes. At present, the quality of your life is not determined by the clothes that you wear, the educational qualifications that you carry, the family background that you come from or the bank balances that you hold. Rather, the quality of your life depends upon how peaceful and joyous you are within yourself.
Unless something of true value happens within you, you can't do anything of tremendous value to the world. Whatever you do, it is only your inner quality that you are going to spread. Whether you like it or not, that is the reality. If you are concerned about the world, the first thing you must do is transform yourself into a joyous being.
To be peaceful and happy is a universal wish, but the question is How to attain it? Suppose something has happened to upset your sense of peace. First you might quarrel with your spouse, then with other people, and then maybe you'll yell at your boss. By that time people are suggesting you need to go to a doctor. If you go to a doctor he'll probably give you a pill to calm you down. With just a little bit of chemical, your system becomes peaceful. It may be just for a short while, but your system does become peaceful.
So what you call peace is just a certain kind of chemistry. Similarly, every emotion you experience--your joy, your anger, your ecstasy, your turmoil, your fear, your stress--each has a chemical basis. Now, there is a technology, an inner science that can enable you to create a chemistry so that you can be peaceful, happy and joyous by your own nature, not subject to what is happening around you. This is the science of yoga. It will change the whole perspective of your life.
2010年1月22日星期五
或许放下，我们彼此都能走得更远。。。
最近在报章上读了一篇文章，觉得很有意思，就与大家分享吧！^^
希望你们会喜欢。。。
“死者死的是形体，活着的却死了心灵。”
短短的一句话，直接道出了伤口中的伤口。
意外死亡事故中，死者家属，甚至亲人和朋友心中，会产生一种奇怪的罪恶感。
这种无名的罪恶感，会让放不下死者的人，认为自己应对使者的死，负起一些责任。
他们会自责，歉疚，选择拥抱悲伤。
这样一年，两年，十年，或更长的日子，不断持续下去，把自己禁困在自责的牢笼之中。
除非学习放下。。。
人，没有过不去的明天，只有放不下的自己。
人生之痛，是生死离别。
悲中之悲，莫过于心死。
这几天，这么多人用力活着，失去的已要不回，但总该能换回些什么，让心好过些。
或许，宽恕，是结束痛苦的句点；坚强，是面对未来的起点。
或许，一切该从学习放下开始。。。
希望你们会喜欢。。。
“死者死的是形体，活着的却死了心灵。”
短短的一句话，直接道出了伤口中的伤口。
意外死亡事故中，死者家属，甚至亲人和朋友心中，会产生一种奇怪的罪恶感。
这种无名的罪恶感，会让放不下死者的人，认为自己应对使者的死，负起一些责任。
他们会自责，歉疚，选择拥抱悲伤。
这样一年，两年，十年，或更长的日子，不断持续下去，把自己禁困在自责的牢笼之中。
除非学习放下。。。
人，没有过不去的明天，只有放不下的自己。
人生之痛，是生死离别。
悲中之悲，莫过于心死。
这几天，这么多人用力活着，失去的已要不回，但总该能换回些什么，让心好过些。
或许，宽恕，是结束痛苦的句点；坚强，是面对未来的起点。
或许，一切该从学习放下开始。。。
2010年1月17日星期日
小小的心情分享。。。
平凡，我心中小小的奢望，
今年的目标。。。
怎么我越接近，它就越退缩？
我相信我可以触碰到它，
但它早已消失得无影无踪去了。。。
或许，
当生命没有得你去选择时，
就应该学会好好的享受。。。
其实，就应为这个位置，
我可以很强烈的感受到人心的恶毒。。。
那一次的越野赛跑，
我的感觉莫名，
我们的友谊是不是随着现实，逐渐疏远了呢？
这是你给的答案？
友谊是一个挺烦人的东西，
稍微一不慎它就从手指尖的隙缝溜走了。。。
不过，我想真的要我做决定的话，
我的决定就是不做任何决定。。。
我真的没有能力，没有力气去面对了。。。
抱歉。。。
交给命运决定，
最后的答案由时间揭晓吧！^^
今年的目标。。。
怎么我越接近，它就越退缩？
我相信我可以触碰到它，
但它早已消失得无影无踪去了。。。
或许，
当生命没有得你去选择时，
就应该学会好好的享受。。。
其实，就应为这个位置，
我可以很强烈的感受到人心的恶毒。。。
那一次的越野赛跑，
我的感觉莫名，
我们的友谊是不是随着现实，逐渐疏远了呢？
这是你给的答案？
友谊是一个挺烦人的东西，
稍微一不慎它就从手指尖的隙缝溜走了。。。
不过，我想真的要我做决定的话，
我的决定就是不做任何决定。。。
我真的没有能力，没有力气去面对了。。。
抱歉。。。
交给命运决定，
最后的答案由时间揭晓吧！^^
2010年1月15日星期五
2010年1月9日星期六
2010年1月2日星期六
2010年的迎新日
今年的迎新日，明明就没有我的份，
就是一直要去。。。
去干吗？
打扰人家咯。。。
不过真正的理由是。。。秘密。。。
就在那儿很好玩啦。。。
被人家误会是新生。。。
我好年轻哦！！！^^
带着我的新邻居去，很好啦。。。
就是我在前面跑，她在后面追。。。
又遇到校友老师，
又想起12月31号那件事。。。
纳闷。。。
今天，那一群人（就是某一群人），
害我好丢脸啦！！！
丢脸丢脸丢脸。。。
算了。。。
反正我这种人都是没有脸的。。。
哈哈哈。。。
会这样想还好。。。
又欠溧珉三令吉，我想我现在的愿望是溧珉对我说不需要还她钱。。。
哈哈。。。
不可能啦。。。
她这样吝啬。。。（趁机损她几句，小心被她打！）
迎新日很好玩。。。
只是想要对今年的新生说一下，
做人要做勇敢的那一个，
对人家讲话，
大声点，清晰点。。。
这样人家就不会误解你的意思了。。。
各位，加油吧！
就是一直要去。。。
去干吗？
打扰人家咯。。。
不过真正的理由是。。。秘密。。。
就在那儿很好玩啦。。。
被人家误会是新生。。。
我好年轻哦！！！^^
带着我的新邻居去，很好啦。。。
就是我在前面跑，她在后面追。。。
又遇到校友老师，
又想起12月31号那件事。。。
纳闷。。。
今天，那一群人（就是某一群人），
害我好丢脸啦！！！
丢脸丢脸丢脸。。。
算了。。。
反正我这种人都是没有脸的。。。
哈哈哈。。。
会这样想还好。。。
又欠溧珉三令吉，我想我现在的愿望是溧珉对我说不需要还她钱。。。
哈哈。。。
不可能啦。。。
她这样吝啬。。。（趁机损她几句，小心被她打！）
迎新日很好玩。。。
只是想要对今年的新生说一下，
做人要做勇敢的那一个，
对人家讲话，
大声点，清晰点。。。
这样人家就不会误解你的意思了。。。
各位，加油吧！
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